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re: Not riding

KCS — Fri, 05 Sep 2008 03:26:37 GMT

Thank you, friends. I have been out there each day, and two nights, one with an hour ride with friends, and each with a nice rub down and talk with my girl. Tonight, she whirled away and bucked (after I let her go) with the other horses. Then she came right back for another scratch. All I can say is that sometimes I function, then other times I do not. I am trudging on.

re: Not riding

franniebandit — Thu, 04 Sep 2008 19:06:12 GMT

KCS,

I know its not easy to loose a Mom, I lost my mom and dad 18 years ago to a drunk driver, I know you feel hurt & anger and that life seems to go on and it has no right to do that while you hurt, that you want to cling on to your mom, I can't say you will loose those feelings, but I can tell you with time you will understand them and come to a place where there will be peace for your broken heart. take your time, morning for a loved one has no time limit. your mare loves you and is your friend, she will wait, she knows you hurt inside, Your mare loves you unconditionally, She will be there on the day you need her the most. thats whats so great about a pet, hug her tell her you will be back when the time is right.

re: Not riding

savo — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 19:26:40 GMT

Go out there right now. I know its hard losing someone you love and its okay to cry. go see your horse and just talk to her. its nice to have someone to talk to, someone who will listen to you and not judge you or give you a look. i know you have a friendship with your horse, but believe it or not this horse can be what you need to heal. once you talk to her, itll feel good and things that make you feel good you want to to again, therefore seeing her shouldnt be a chore. it should be your daily routine, and i know things will work out. and im really sorry about your mom. stay strong AND GO SEE THAT HORSEE!!!

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re: Life and the end of life

NWBuckskinLvr — Sun, 28 Oct 2007 04:49:41 GMT

The eloquence with which you have portrayed your love for your mother touches my heart. Bless you and your family.

re: Life and the end of life

lovinlife — Tue, 23 Oct 2007 19:41:12 GMT

I'm so sorry, KCS. It's nice you got to share her last days with her. That last sentence was beautiful, and so true. God bless.

re: Life and the end of life

KCS — Tue, 23 Oct 2007 01:00:18 GMT

My mother was promoted to heaven Sunday morning at 5:10 AM. She slipped away quietly minutes after hearing her grandson's voice from overseas (my Marine son). Family is nearby and all are rejoicing for the new song in heaven, yet heartbroken for the silence here on earth.

re: Life and the end of life

spragueme — Mon, 22 Oct 2007 19:03:48 GMT

My heart goes out to you. You have written a wonderful tribute to your mom. I know that you are torn between everyone. This is hard on your whole family. But you must remember to also take care of yourself and to find time to get away, even for just a little while. Cherish all the memories you have and make your mom comfortable. Just be thankful that you are there for her. When my dad died in the hospital, I didn't make it back in time to say good-bye. I was sure that he'd still be there when I returned in the morning, it wasn't meant to be. But I wll always regret going home that night. So, be strong and take care. Don't forget about yourself.

re: Life and the end of life

RFBoyer — Sun, 21 Oct 2007 02:56:42 GMT

I am living a similar life. My Mother-iin-Law lives with us. She is not on her last days, but she requires alot of daily care. I have to make decisions daily, on who to give my hours to: my kids, my husband, my horse, my Job, and her. It is hard, and although I need to spend time giving care to her since she may not be with us for long, there are times that I resent that I am not at the barn with my mare, (who also needs me). They all require my time, and I wonder who cares if I get my time?? : )

re: Life and the end of life

ree — Sun, 21 Oct 2007 00:36:22 GMT

Wow, what a nicely written piece. I can tell how torn you are inside. Just remember you wont regret the time your spending with your mom now. Good luck to you and your family....