Oh come on! Bless your heart, you have awesome patience! That mare Solo found looks great!
you can't always get what you want, you can't always get what you want, but if you try sometimes you just might find, YOU GET WHAT YOU NEED!
Mares aren't bad, some are just a little moody(aren't we all...) I've already said this but it is worth repeating. I am 5'9", I wanted AT LEAST 16h, didn't care about breed, gelding, under 10, started in English....The horse I am getting that fits me great is a 15.2h 9yr old mare that cribs....not what I was looking for but when I rode her and was around her it works. Can't she at least try it? Please? I know I'm getting a headache trying to find something that meets her specs, so I am sure you must be! Good luck!