AAHHHHH!!! Don't look at those #'s....muscle weighs more than fat! Being an Army wife, I know you had killer muscles after boot camp!! And they way they feed you, I'm sure you were burning way more calories then you took in!!
I am a believer in "No Pain, No Gain".-- to a point. When I am working out, I know I have to go through some pain before I can get to where I want to be. And if you look back after a couple weeks, what made you hurt before, makes you stronger now. A month ago I could barely do 100 situps. Now I am at 300 a day because 100 got easy after a while, it kills but I'm determined to find that 6 pack, ok, maybe not, just a smaller tummy would be good. But I am not a nut case... I won't hurt myslef, but I will try to push myself. If I am exhausted after 20 min of cardio I will try for 23 minutes, then a few more minutes the next time.
Alright, I've done enough talking. I'm off to go play with my horse. Have a good day everyone!!