If he is just suddenly doing this, my first notion would be to first have him thoroughly vetted; blood work and everything...he could have ulcers, or something else that is making any handling painful, or otherwise 'irratible' to him; although unacceptable, you need to know the cause and treat as necessary.
As soon as you have gotten any physical causes out of the way; treated if necessary, then if the behavior still is problematic, I would be finding a trainer to help you simply work through his tantrums.
Lesson From Your Horse: When you' re tense, let me teach you that there are lions in the woods, and we need to leave. NOW!!
